I have fruit trees that didn’t make any fruit until five or six years after we planted them.
I’ve never looked at them thinking, “why don’t you grow faster.”
But I have had that thought while I was staring at the vanity metrics of my social media.
Why is it so easy to respect the movements and cycles of nature, but when it comes to ourselves—our art, our healing, our confidence, we get anxious and impatient.
The internet tells us to treat our personal brand like a sprinting machine, and we’re supposed to chase virality, conversions, and external validation. But things that produce with longevity—like trees, take time.
They get something they need from every season, and invest their energy in the roots before we see any significant development on the surface.
I know ‘brand’ is a big buzzword right now. And it definitely gets misused and tossed around all willy nilly. But I don’t shy away from it anymore, because when you get past all the noise, brand is just a personal reputation from a professional perspective.
It’s not just what you post, but what people expect when they see your name on their timeline. It’s the vibe you leave behind. The trust your community has for your voice and your vision.
It doesn’t happen by accident, it’s deliberate, and earned over time. It’s the fruit that grows when you consistently water your values in public.
And like a tree, your brand needs seasons to grow.
Time to root. Time to expand. Time to shed. Time to bloom.
Trees don’t hustle.
Everything has its seasons, including business, brand, and the creative journey.
Spring is for starting fresh—new ideas are breaking the surface and everything feels energized. This is where we explore and experiment. There’s momentum but not much clarity. We’re in the flow, but out of focus, and it’s beautiful.
Summer is for building—things are growing fast, but they need structure. You’re gonna sweat and all the new ideas make it easier to get distracted, but you need to protect what you’ve planted. You have to build trellises, prune branches, and figure out what’s thriving vs what’s struggling, and why.
Fall is for harvesting and refining—not just celebrating wins, but also releasing whatever doesn’t serve us anymore. Let the leaves drop. Let go of the projects, the strategies, and the personas that don’t align. All those lessons go to the compost.
Winter is for stillness—reflection, deep work, invisible growth. If you’re not careful, this is where you start freakin’ out. We think we’re failing because nothing is “happening.” But winter is where we grow deep roots. Conviction is built in the quietude.
If we don’t move through all these seasons, the things we produce are like greenhouse plants. Cute, but fragile. They lack resilience because they haven’t been exposed to the natural elements. (This is why most of the vegetable plants die after you buy them from the store. Don’t get me started.)
If we want to produce things that last and make a positive impact, it’s gonna need deep roots, and that calls for a slower, more patient rhythm.
When you move too fast you don’t have time to listen to your own voice. So you tap into the chatter of the algorithm, you follow what’s already trending.
Speed is not inherently bad, but let’s keep it all the way real. The stuff that gets pumped out the fastest is mostly imitation.
People see a format that works, they copy it, and get a few likes.
But the tradeoff is depth, authenticity, and originality. All that is fine if it’s alignment with the mission you’re on, we just have to decide.
Do we want to go wide fast, or deep over time?
Do we want to prioritize reach or resonance?
Would you rather be recognized for a viral moment, or remembered for a vital message?
Trees don’t rush, and I don’t want to either.
If you’re building something meaningful, understand that it will take seasons.
There’s gonna be lots of pruning, patience, dirty hands and gloomy days where nothing seems to be happening. But that’s when the roots get deep.
You’re not late. You’re not behind. You’re in a continuum of becoming.
Instead of chasing a spotlight, let’s get deeper into our values and water them with action, in the open. Let that radiance be the message.
Center the foundational frequency that everything you do is rooted in, and trust that fruit will be sweeter than anything that grows from a hustle.
Just a thought.
Where would you say you are right now—Spring, Summer, Fall, or Winter?
Once you decide, ask yourself:
What does this season need from me?
What can I let go of?
What can I lean into?
Drop me a comment and let me know
Thank you for reading. You are greatly appreciated.
Always love a life takeaway from nature! Especially from my fruit trees!
This season is very much about exploring new creative avenues and trying out new ideas. I have a structure I set in the winter but I’m allowing myself to be flexible as I’ve learned that people don’t come for my format and structure.
I started my Substack almost 2 years ago and have been slowly building. The biggest lesson was to not over brand my work and just see what resonated with people over time. If it could be replicated, great but not everything needs to follow a format. Leaving room for creativity is key 🔑
*If we don’t move through all these seasons, the things we produce are like greenhouse plants. Cute, but fragile. They lack resilience because they haven’t been exposed to the natural elements. (This is why most of the vegetable plants die after you buy them from the store. Don’t get me started.)* this is so LOGICAL and obvious and i feel stupid for not seeing it!!!